In brief
A similar housing does not mean uniform electrical behavior.
Useful to know
HELLA offers relays with normally open contacts and with a combination of normally open/normally closed contacts. NO and NC refer to the relay-free state. [1]
When selected, compare the scheme, rated voltage and allowable load, not just the number of feet. The same shape of the jack is not a sufficient basis for exchange. A relay is an electrical switching component; it is not a fuse that is selected by a completely different protective function. For the specific circuit, its scheme is used.
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